Upcoming Midwestern Lesbian Events
Late Bloomer: An Evening for Sapphics 30 and Older
Late Bloomer is back and we're taking over Braxton Brewing in Covington! Late Bloomer is an evening for sapphic identifying people who are 30 years or older. Come and meet other sapphics in the community, support a local business, play games, drink and have fun! Starts at 6pm
What does "sapphic" mean? An umbrella term for women and gender non-conforming individuals, who are attracted to women. It's a broader term than "lesbian" and encompasses individuals who may identify as lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or other queer orientations, as well as trans, non-binary, and cisgender women. Think ABCD, Anyone But Cis Dudes
Queer Game Night
not all the games will be queer, but y'all will be! join us for a game night at homemakers on february 4th starting at 6pm, happy hour until 7pm, and games until 9pm! we'll have the classics, board games, card games, gay games, group games, couple games and more!
allies always welcome to homemakers hangouts 🫶
Sapphic Speed Dating
Tired of dating apps? Want to meet other sapphics without the weird small talk at the bar? Join us for Sapphic Speed Dating, a low-pressure speed dating night for the sapphics!
We’ll guide you through a variety of short, one-on-one convos, think flirty, awkward, and maybe chaotic, in the best way. There will be music, drinks, name tags, and some post-event matchmaking!
This night is for anyone 21+ who identifies somewhere on the sapphic spectrum and wants to meet others who do too. Whether you’re looking for a date, a friend with benefits, or just someone to watch But I’m a Cheerleader with, you just might meet them here.
Tickets are limited so we can keep it intimate and fun, so snag yours early!
Located at 9176 Winton Rd. Cincinnati, OH
Sapphic Sips Anniversary Party: Sappho's Disco
We are so excited to be hosting our 2nd Annual Sapphic Sips Anniversary Party, presented by Rhinegeist Brewery!
Join us on Friday February 13th, starting at 7:30pm, in The Clubhouse at Rhinegeist Brewery for an evening of sapphic community, music by DJ Nymph, drink specials, photo ops, a raffle and more!
This year’s theme: Sappho’s Disco! Think pinks, reds and oranges mixed with bell bottoms, velvet and sequins!
Sapphic Kicks Free Open Play Kickball
we're playing kickball with HotMess Sports Cincinnati!!! join us for our second annual Sapphic Kicks, a free open play sapphic kickball game at Salway Park for the sapphic community! come to play or come to watch! after party at Tillie's Lounge from 3pm-5pm!
want to play? sign up through the link below!
https://hotmesssports.sportngin.com/register/form/305350267
What does "sapphic" mean? An umbrella term for women and gender non-conforming individuals, who are attracted to women. It's a broader term than "lesbian" and encompasses individuals who may identify as lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or other queer orientations, as well as trans, non-binary, and cisgender women. Think ABCD, Anyone But Cis Dudes
Sapphic Sips
Join us for our first Sapphic Sips of 2026! We're taking over Winterhaus at Fountain Square. This is a new tradition that celebrates Fountain Square as Cincinnati's own front yard! Winterhaus is a heated, glass-enclosed, 65ft x 65ft tented retreat in the heart of Downtown Cincinnati, complete with a full bar! Sapphic Sips starts at 5pm and goes until 8pm! We'll have name tags, games, drinks and more. See y'all there!
What does "sapphic" mean? An umbrella term for women and gender non-conforming individuals, who are attracted to women. It's a broader term than "lesbian" and encompasses individuals who may identify as lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or other queer orientations, as well as trans, non-binary, and cisgender women. Think ABCD, Anyone But Cis Dudes
Everyday Posing
Have you ever said “I don’t know what to do with my hands” or “we never know how to stand together”?
This class is for anyone who wants to feel more comfortable in photos; by yourself, with a partner or with friends!
Join us at the Midwestern Lesbian office January 25th for an every day posing class with
Queer Line Dancing
Join Midwestern Lesbian and Bree Reynolds from The Ritz Ballroom at Rhinegeist Taproom for a night of cold drinks, great music, and the BEST vibes in Cincinnati. New to line dancing? No problem! We have an hour class from 6:30-7:30 to get you ready to dance the night away. Tickets are pre-sale only.
Friend Request: Queer Speed Friending
We all know how hard it is to make friends as an adult, especially when you’re trying to find friendships within the LGBTQ+ community. Join us at Rhinegeist Brewery at 6pm for Friend Request, a queer speed friending event, welcome to anyone within the LGBTQ+ community!
Instead of navigating awkward small talk, we’ll use fun, curated prompts to get right to what matters: shared interests, local favorites, and what makes a great friend. Whether you're new to the city, looking to expand your social circle, or just want to meet other queer people, this is the place to be!
Details:
Location: Rhinegeist Brewery Taproom - 1910 Elm St. Cincinnati, OH 45202
Timeframe: 6pm-9pm
Check-in: 6pm-6:30pm
Round 1: ~ 6:30pm
Round 2: ~ 7:30pm
Mingling: ~ 8:30pm
This event is for anyone in the LGBTQ+ community who is 21+
Stitch N' Bitch
It's 2026 and we're back with a Stitch N' Bitch! Bring your current fiber arts craft, start something new, or just come and bitch! Starts at 6pm with happy hour until 7pm! We'll be stitchin' and bitchin' until 9pm!
Photo 101 Class with Caitlin Chrisenée Photo
In this hands-on beginner workshop, we’ll dive into the foundations of photography. From understanding your camera and shooting in manual mode to finding great light, composing your shots, and editing your images with intention. You’ll learn how aperture, shutter speed, and ISO work together to create properly exposed photos, as well as how to use composition and lighting to tell a story. We’ll also practice posing and directing subjects naturally, making people feel comfortable in front of the camera, and developing your own creative style. Whether you’re using a DSLR, mirrorless, or your phone, you’ll leave with the confidence to capture genuine, meaningful moments and a solid understanding of how to bring your creative vision to life.
Queer Pottery Night
Join us on December 19th at 7pm for a night of community and hand building pottery at Queen City Clay with Midwestern Lesbian! Tickets include a clay hand building class with Queen City Clay, one creation, glazing and firing! BYOB!
Sapphic Sipsmas
We're celebrating the holidays at The Pitch for their holiday pop up, Pitchmas! Join us for Sapphic Sipsmas, a Sunday made for celebrating the holidays with our sapphic community. An afternoon filled with drink specials, photo ops, the holiday spirit and more!
RSVP through the Pinyada app to let us know you'll be there!
What does "sapphic" mean? An umbrella term for women and gender non-conforming individuals, who are attracted to women. It's a broader term than "lesbian" and encompasses individuals who may identify as lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or other queer orientations, as well as trans, non-binary, and cisgender women. Think ABCD, Anyone But Cis Dudes
Cuffing Season: A Sapphic Singles Night
Cuffing Season is upon us and we’re here to help you find your match!
Join us at Oddfellow's Liquor Bar for Cuffing Season: A Sapphic Singles Night, presented by Pinyada!
This event is designed to help the single sapphic community find your next romance, friendship, business connection or just a little winter fun
Your ticket includes entry to a night of games, conversation starters, crafts, and more! Come ready to talk, mingle, and meet other singles in the area
This event is powered by Pinyada an event management social platform. Pinyada is your secret weapon for building real relationships!
How to join:
1. Grab your ticket through the Pinyada app or website
2. Then join us at Oddfellow’s Liquor Bar on December 12th from 7pm-11pm, meet people, step outside of your comfort zone and make connections!
3. After the event, scroll through the RSVP list to find people you talked with, or didn’t have the chance to talk to, and request to match with them directly through the app, you can even do this anonymously! Whether it's for romance, friendship or a business connection.
If it’s a match, chat directly with your matches through the app, even after the event. Giving you the opportunity to build real connections beyond the event.
What does "sapphic" mean? An umbrella term for women and gender non-conforming individuals, who are attracted to women. It's a broader term than "lesbian" and encompasses individuals who may identify as lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or other queer orientations, as well as trans, non-binary, and cisgender women. Think ABCD, Anyone But Cis Dudes
Sapphic Santas: Print Making Night
Get ready to sleigh the holiday gift-giving season with your own two hands at Sapphic Santas!
Join us for a cozy, creative, and queer evening of DIY gift making. Forget store-bought this year, your gifts will be personalized, handmade, and filled with love.
What We're Making: Patches & Linocuts!
Unleash your inner artist with our theme: patches and linocut printing.
We'll provide all the essentials, including carving supplies and materials for stamp carving and print making on both fabric and paper.
You'll walk away with your very own unique carved stamp ready to use for prints!
This event is free! However, seats are limited, so you must RSVP to secure your spot and ensure we have enough materials for everyone.
Don't miss out on this chance to craft, connect, and celebrate the season!
Queer Owned Holiday Market
Mark your calendars! Join us for our Queer Owned Holiday Market on Sunday, December 7th, from 12PM-4PM in the Signature Room and Lounge at Rhinegeist Brewery! 🎁
Get some items for your holiday shopping and discover unique gifts from incredible local LGBTQIA+ entrepreneurs. We're featuring a curated selection of vendors, including several amazing businesses who are also part of our "12 Days of Queermas" series!
Come grab a drink, connect with community, and shop with intention. See you there!
Mug Trading
we know you have some mugs collecting dust in the back of your cabinet. bring them to our mug trading night and bring a new replacement home! ☕️
grab a mug and bring it to trade with other mug lovers!
trading starts at 6pm, happy hour until 7pm, trading until 9pm!
Small Business Saturday Mini Market
Join us at HomeMakers Bar for a Mini Market! Highlighting local small businesses around Cincinnati! Support local and shop through vintage clothing, curated items, artwork, reworked pieces, coffee and more!
Vendors:
Crystal Prophecy Vintage
Reworked by Sav
Oro Beauty Collective
Topia Coffee Coop
Market starts at 1pm, see y'all there!
White Lie Party
time to spill the almost truth 👀 get ready for our white lie party at @queencityexchange on november 28th starting at 9pm!!
wear your lie proudly, grab a few drinks, dance with the other liars, and don’t forget the photo ops to capture all your “confessions” 🤍
Drinksgiving: A Night Before Thanksgiving Party
it's the biggest going out night of the year, so join us at HomeMakers Bar for Drinksgiving!
food & drink specials:
$5 gravy backs
$5 pickle backs
$8 franksgiving dogs: hot dog with mashed potatoes, pickled green beans & cranberry ketchup
this is a night you won't want to miss!
Wicked: For Good - Drag Brunch
Join us for a spectacularly Oz-some time at the Wicked: For Good Drag Brunch at Rhinegeist Brewery! A morning filled with magical performances, delicious food, and glittering company. Your ticket includes exclusive admission to The Clubhouse, a brunch buffet, performances by Vanta Black, Fifi LeFay, and Indica Blows, a photo opportunity with the cast, and more bewitching surprises! Don't be late for this experience you won't want to miss. Get your tickets before they defy gravity!
Sapphic Sips
sapphic sips is back and we’re taking it over the river to Braxton Brewing in Covington!! join us for drinks, food, games, community and more! 🍻
Hear My Voice: Holiday Edition
Our voice is so powerful: It expresses what we do and don’t want. It advocates for ourself and others. It’s a vehicle for expression and creativity. It can serve as a shield, a sword, an alarm.
Yet many people find their voice difficult to use—especially during the holidays, when gatherings can be large, company can be mixed, and alcohol and criticism often flow freely. In this 3-hour workshop, we’ll discuss and practice setting boundaries and navigating uncomfortable conversations. We’ll also take a close look at how we talk to and about ourselves and how that impacts our self-image and self-worth.
Open to all, ages 16+. Minors must be accompanied by a parent or guardian.
Due to space limitations, you must pre-register for this event. Our registration fee operates on a sliding scale. Choose $35, $50, or $65 based on your budget.
A portion of the proceeds for this event will support Midwestern Lesbian.
Queer Open Mic Night
Get ready for a night of creativity and community at our Queer Open Mic Night!
Join us on Wednesday, November 13th at Highball Cincy for a vibrant evening showcasing the incredible talent of the local LGBTQ+ community and allies. The mic opens at 7:00 PM!
Whether you're a poet, musician, comedian, storyteller, or any other kind of creative, this is your stage. It's an open and supportive space hosted by Midwestern Lesbian and Quills & Queers where you can share your work, try out new material, or simply soak up the amazing art.
Come on out and show us what you've got in this positive, welcoming environment. Attendance is FREE!
See you there!
Hallo-Wednesday: A Queer Halloween Party
Spooky season is almost over, and we're having a Halloween Party at HomeMakers Bar! Join us for an evening filled with candy, games, drinks, pumpkin painting, food, and maybe even a costume contest!
This will also be Donnie's last shift at HomeMakers! We're excited to celebrate his newest endeavors, and hope to see him sitting at the bar with us on Wednesdays now!
Party starts at 6pm, with happy hour until 7pm! If we have enough people interested in the costume contest, we'll have it at 7:30pm!
Late Bloomer - An Evening for Sapphics 30 & Older
Late Bloomer is back and we're taking over HighGrain in Silverton! Join us for an evening of community, drinks, conversation, games, beer and more! We'll be on the back patio starting at 6pm, with our own private bar, corn hole, fire pits, and music. See y'all there!
The October birth flowers are marigold and cosmos. With their beautiful autumnal colors and spicy scent, marigolds are extremely fitting for those celebrating their birthday in October and a favorite of many gardeners. Marigolds have a really long history behind them!
Queer Pottery Workshop - Hand Building
Join us on October 24th at 7pm for a night of community and hand building pottery at Queen City Clay with Midwestern Lesbian! Tickets include a clay hand building class with Queen City Clay, one creation, glazing and firing! BYOB!
Queer History Trivia
Join us for an evening of trivia and learning with Queen City Queer History! Jake from Queen City Queer History will be quizzing us on our queer history knowledge on October 22nd! Event starts at 6pm, happy hour until 7pm, and trivia will start promptly at 7pm!
Winning team gets a prize and bragging rights! See y'all there
Graveyard Shift: Halloween Party
calling all goblins, ghouls, zombies and gays!! 👻 join us for an evening for music, dancing, costumes and more!! 🍻 put on your costumes and dance in the graveyard with us. party starts at 9pm, see you there!! 💀
Queer Karaoke: Halloween Edition
it's almost time to get spooky! put on your costumes and come party with us at Tokyo Kitty with karaoke, drinks from Bacardi, photobooth, and performances by @fifilefay and @sapphicsunshine_ !
pre-register to make sure you can get in the door!
Latine Singo with Guad Ala Jara
Celebrate the end of Hispanic Heritage Month with us and @guad.ala.jara for Latine Singo! It’s bingo, but with music, featuring some of your favorite Latine artists!
Get there at 6pm to get a seat and enjoy happy hour, singo starts at 7pm! All winners get prizes! See y’all there 🎶💃
Game Night
break out your favorite games and bring them over to HomeMakers for a Game Night! plenty of games available, or bring your favorite to introduce to people! 🎲
game play from 6pm to 9pm, happy hour until 7pm!
The Devil Wears Prada Party
we’re going to paris fashion week! 👠
caitlin is going to photograph paris fashion week with @myconquering and we’re sending her off in style, with a The Devil Wears Prada party!! we’ll have junk journaling, decoupage, drinks, food, and of course The Devil Wears Prada (with movie bingo)!!
party starts at 6pm, movie starts at 6:30!
Queer Soccer Open Play
join us tomorrow for an evening of open play! learn about our queer 3v3 soccer league, play a quick match or two, meet other players, enjoy drinks, food truck and more! ⚽️ see y'all there!
Queer 3v3 League
Channel your inner Megan Rapinoe and join us for a Queer 3v3 Soccer League in partnership with @thepitchcincy !! ⚽️
Registration is open now and closes on September 21st. Teams must have at least 5 players. Join as a team or a free agent! 🥅

